Dealing with an addicted spouse

a 12-step program. While there are many 12-step programs geared towards those who are struggling with addiction, try to persuade the spouse to take part in one of those – there are also many that are specifically catered to the family members of those who are addicted to drugs or alcohol. These groups can offer a network of support from people who are struggling with a similar addiction, and together, they can share stories and advice.

Another helpful approach is speaking to a therapist. They can offer a valuable service to the family members of addicted persons and effectively help deal with the emotional issues moving forward.

Worst Case Scenarios

Coping with an addicted spouse is especially difficult because it’s a loved one. Unfortunately, that sometimes means considering a separation or divorce. While this solution isn’t ideal, if a partner is ever abusive or presents a dangerous or violent situation, there will be no other option: the highest priority must be to keep children safe. Once that haven has been established, a spouse can reinstate contact with the addicted spouse to determine whether they’re ready to admit a need for help.

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A Voluntary Decision

When it comes to an addicted spouse getting help, it must come out of an honest decision on their part. Often, the threat of divorce or separation may not prove to be an effective technique at forcing an epiphany and would further increase tension and potentially exacerbate the addictive behavior. Approach the subject in a non-judgmental manner, and emphasize that it is the addiction, not the person, causing the problem. While a substance abuse treatment center is likely the best option for an addicted spouse, these programs can only prove successful when the addict is honest about their addiction and their need for help.

Topher Avery
Author: Topher Avery

Topher Avery is a contributor and editor at Addiction Now. A natural wordslinger, Topher studied English at the University of Colorado at Boulder and received his JD from Chapman University. Currently, Topher resides in Southern California beneath a pile of cats and books. Contact Topher at christophera@drugaddictionnow.com

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Dealing with an addicted spouse
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Addiction can be incredibly difficult to deal with, even when it’s someone else who has become addicted to drugs or alcohol. When a spouse has become entrenched in substance abuse, the partner is usually subjected to the immediate consequences of dealing with someone suffering from addiction, and they frequently find themselves cleaning up messes the spouse has made elsewhere, as well.
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Topher Avery
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